Missing it Before Leaving it: American Kindness

written by Adi Pratama from Indonesia

Who doesn’t know the United States. Many prominent figures in the world come from this country. Technology, economics, scientific, almost all sectors become in this country become global gold standard.  No wonder many people dream to at least put their feet in this dreamy land. I am one of them. Going to the United States was one of my biggest dreams. And I was lucky this year I did not just realize my dream but also, what never crossed my mind before, in a country that known to be most competitive one in the world, I found a treasure of genuine kindness.

Last week one memorable thing happened at my worksite, DC Chamber of Commerce. My colleague Valentina was sick and our Supervisor, Margaret Singleton, not only allowed her to go to the doctor but also made sure there is a colleague of us who accompanied her to the doctor. Ms. Nathalie Harris and Ms. Jennie Orange took care of Valentina very well and take her to the doctor. Until the next day they keep checking if she doing fine already. Their concern for us made me and Valentina out of words to express our gratitude. Beside that, our President & CEO, Mr. Vincent Orange also always take time to talk to us to make sure all we need is there. He even sent us to the National Museum of African American History and Culture and give precious lesson from the experience (that I would tell you in another post).

I found another moment when I had the opportunity to visit and study at Destination DC, stakeholders who marketed tourism for Washington DC. At the beginning, I felt that I was coming in a wrong timing because it was a busy week for everyone there, but I was wrong. I was very well received. Ms. Terri Carter Human Resource Manager from Destination DC is happy to give me a brief tour to get around the awesome Destination DC office. Continued by Mr. Bruno Schwartz who is a Senior Manager of membership who kindly explained in detail how Destination DC works. All came and went because they actually have upcoming work, but they really devoted attention and also answered tons of my questions in detail. Ms. Letizia Sirtori and Ms. Lindsey Hill then accompanied me to lunch and was kind enough help me discuss about my outbound project that I will do in Indonesia. The most memorable moment was when after lunch I was invited to join the weekly staff meeting. President of Destination DC Mr. Elliot Fergusson welcomed me warmly and invited me to take a picture with the entire staff of Destination DC. He is very humble and nice. He willing to give a word or two for the activists of tourism in Indonesia through my vlog. I haven’t been there for a day, but already fall in love with this office.

Not only at Worksite, my two weeks with my Host family is also amazing. Lilia Murphy, my ‘Host mom’ treats me very well. I was very surprise when she cooks fried rice for dinner, just because I casually told her that I still need to adjust because I used to eat rice in Indonesia. On the weekend, Lilia kindly drove us to Baltimore and Annapolis on her precious day-off. Last Friday night she held a small dinner and invited some of her acquaintances to give me and host my brother from Brazil culture exposure which is very useful for us. The next day one of Lilia’s neighbors, Barbra kindly drove me and my Host Brother and accompanied us to the shopping center because my Host brother wanted to buy something before returning home to Brazil. All day, she spent his weekend with us and she did it with pleasure.

There is more that I can’t comprehend here. But those already touch my heart deeply. Not just a courtesy to be polite, but something sincere that is hard for us to forget. This country not only has great people indeed, but also people who have a wonderful heart with them. Therefore, I know, even before I go home, I will miss this country and its people very much.

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